Sheila is known by many through her blog and ministry “The Not So Excellent Wife.” She calls herself a "not so" excellent wife because after years of frustration, disappointment and marital mishaps, she learned the secret to a better marriage.

She teaches women to apply timeless truths to modern-day marriages. 

Sheila helps women toss destructive habits and crappy mindsets out the window to live the life God intended.  In addition to blogging and speaking, Sheila is the Executive Director of TakeCharge, a nonprofit organization that works to restore the two-parent black family.

She was a homeschooling mom for more than 25 years. She and her husband Kendall have been married for 37 years and have five children. They currently live in Minnesota with their Black Lab named Largo.